Relationships & Dating

Boundaries in Dating: Guardrails, Not Walls

A boundary is a decision made on a clear day that protects you on a foggy one. In dating, good boundaries do not keep love out; they keep two people on the road long enough to find out whether it leads to marriage. Here are four kinds, and how to raise them without making it awkward.

YESHVA EditorialSeptember 29, 20265 min readEditor: Luciano Olguin

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